10 Ways to love your Wife:
- Make her feel secure and comfortable; quit BEING AGGRESSIVE
- While you enter in house say Asalam-u-alaikum (Greetings) It kicks the shaitan out of your house!
- The Prophet (peace be upon him) described the wife as a fragile vessel and said to care for this vessel that's fragile. Don't forget that there is goodness in this vessel so deal with it gently.
- While you endorse her, accomplish that in privacy, in a peaceful atmosphere. No longer IN PUBLIC as its a form of slandering.
- Be beneficent to your wife- it keeps her loved
- Move and let her have your seat. It is going to heat her heart.
- AVOID ANGER. HOW? Preserve your wudu invariably. Prophet peace be upon him stated if you are angry, sit down down, if you are sitting, then lie down. Follow the sunnah!
- Appear good and smell high-quality in your wife. IT maintains the LOVE!
- Don't be inflexible. It'll wreck you. Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) mentioned'i am the first-rate amongst you and i'm the nice to my wife'. Being inflexible and harsh won't deliver you close to Allah and neither does it make you extra of a man.
- Listen to your spouse-BE a good LISTENER.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
"The most perfect Muslim in the matter of faith is one who has excellent behavior and the best among you are those whom behave is best towards their wives."
(Tirmidhi)
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
O young people! Whoever among you can support a wife should marry, for that is more modest for your gaze and safer for your private parts.
(Sahih Muslim and Sahih Bukhari)
On the occasion of last sermon (The Farewell Hajj) The Prophet Peace be upon him among other advises said regarding women,
"O People! fear Allah with regard to your wives. You have taken them into your possession with the permission of Allah."
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