Secret of your spouse(partner):

Allah put love between husband and wife. Nikkah is the most beautiful relation. Here are some secrets, i might be wrong but these points are interesting.

For marriage, Women looks Future of Men, but Men looks Past of Women.
Love, Women Likes Quality of Love, but Men likes Quantity of Love.
Search, Mostly Women Search for Character of Men. So its easier for her to forgive him but difficult to forget him, Whereas Mostly Men Likes Beauty of Women so if he find better one he can forget her but if she makes any mistake to him its difficult to forgive her.

Here are few tips to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner...

Ways to keep your spouse happy:

Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love

1. Make her feel secure. don't threaten her with divorce because she is your wife not a stranger.

2. When she do any thing wrong Advise her in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.

3. Be a good listener. Listen to her when she needs

4. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear. Bad names could drpressed her

5. Don't act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing goods, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.

6. Sit down and eat meals together. It will make her feel good because female is sensative.

7. Keep disputes between the two of you, don't take it outside. It can ruin your relation

8. Don't leave home in anger.

Ways to Keep Your Husband's Love

1. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female--a man doesn't want a man for his wife.

2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. Choose beautiful colors. If you are a home-maker, don't stay in your sleeping suit all day.

3. Don't lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.

4. Don't keep asking him, "what are you thinking?"Because he would mentally tired.

5. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother. Because according to Qur'an his mother is your mother.

6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.

7. If he is angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you are quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he is calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.

8. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So make his favourite dishes and care for his health

9. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him. Love with him

10. Don't EVER compare your husbands to other husbands! For example don't say, "well her husband doesn't do that, why do you" (thats a killer!)

11. Wake him up for Qiyam ul-Layl (in the last third of the night) and fajar ask him to pray with you.

Because good man and woman will be together in jannah(heaven).